You will succeed on the next try!
Life. What can we compare it to? A river overflowing with waves? A heavy rain falling from the sky? Or perhaps the sun that spreads its golden rays across the earth every day? Have you ever compared life to a road? If life is a road, then we are simply travelers on it. And life's paths are rarely smooth. Sometimes life is painful, full of sorrow. Other times, it brings moments of joy. At certain stops along this long journey, you may encounter bitter truths. But how we live along these roads is entirely up to us. We choose how to respond to every event, every situation. And I believe that's how it should be — because you will live the life you choose, not those who advised you. Most people go through life constantly looking for faults in others. But have we ever truly listened to our own hearts? Why are we afraid to share the love sleeping deep inside our souls? After all, love isn't something you can buy at a market. Tell me, when was the last time you hugged your mother and said, “Mom, I love you”? Sometimes, we feel the urge to cry deeply — yet we hold back because we're ashamed in front of others. We pretend we're happy. But to understand what real happiness is, we must first learn how to give it to others. I once came across a quote in a writer's book. It read: “If you live every day as if it were your last, someday you'll most certainly be right.” That quote awakened a great sense of responsibility in me. Think about it: If today were your last day, would you still be doing what you're doing now? Would you walk the same paths? Would you say the things you've been meaning to say? If not, then let's spend our lives doing what truly matters to us. Our time is limited — don't waste it on regrets, fears, or problems that don't matter in the long run. Don't live someone else's life based on their opinions. Most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. Somehow, they already know who you are meant to become. Everything else is secondary. And never give up on your dreams or your goals. Don't say, “It's not working, there's no more hope.” Every success is born from forcing yourself to keep going when it's hardest to do so. Success never comes easy. My art teacher used to say: “If it's difficult, you're on the right path.” How true that is. Never lose hope. If it didn't work the 40th time, it might just work on the 41st. A person doesn't truly fail when they make mistakes — they fail when they stop trying. There's a popular saying we all know: “If the plan doesn't work, change the plan — not the goal.” Every obstacle on the way to your goal can be turned into a lesson. Say, for example, you made 101 mistakes working on a project — and then finally succeeded. Don't call those mistakes; consider them 101 ways of learning how not to do it. Only when you think this way will the doors to real success begin to open for you. Let's take a look at the lives of world-famous people we all know today. Were things always perfect for them? Of course not. Take Steve Jobs, for example — one of the founders of Apple. Today, he's known as a man who changed the world of technology. But he, too, went through incredibly tough challenges. In 1985, he was fired from Apple — the very company he founded. Just imagine: being thrown out of something you built with your own hands. It was a crushing blow. But he didn't give up. Instead, he founded Pixar Studios — which later became one of the most successful animation companies in history. Eventually, he returned to Apple and created revolutionary products like the iPhone and iPad, changing the world once again. Or look at Albert Einstein. As a child, he was very slow. He started speaking late and was considered an average student in school. His teachers even said he showed “no signs of genius.” But he kept working on what he loved: physics and mathematics. Through his passion and dedication, he proposed a theory that changed the way we understand the universe — and rewrote the history of science with the formula E=mc². Einstein always said: “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” That's life, my friend. Complaining about it constantly is foolish. Instead, we must gather experience, not despair. Remember this again and again: Never give up. Hope blooms when you least expect it.