A father is like a hero for a daughter..that's the way I used to see my father as .when I was younger in my childhood I'm mean he used to bring me a butterfly because he knows well how happy I become when seeing one ..Now I'm 22 and few months ago he brought me flowers that he found interesting and thought I would like them .He is that kind of man he is my hero but those days are the hardest for us and I start wondering how our relationship is taking a dangerous road.Now that im 22 years old jobless and single I start hearing his anxious words I knew he does care about me but to tell him he needs to trust my own decisions how to tell that I want to continue my Master's degree to get a suitable job ,how to tell him that marriage is related to Destiny and I can't control men's emotions towards me I can't find a real excuse myself why the one I like decided to leave the country ignoring all the dreams I draw with him how to convince him that if someone likes another he would love him the way he is or should I convince the society first for creating such high standards and controlling our relationships and lives ..